Gossip is and has been common among societies for centuries, quickly spreading through communities and impacting any individual in reach, whether that be the people directly involved, or the person spreading gossip. At the time that this article has been written, Cedarville University’s student body has experienced a series of controversial events. Many have been quick to express their questions, concerns, and conclusions, often being based on little information. Several unofficial CU-related pages on Instagram, regardless of intention, have heavily stirred the pot of drama, and as a result, many have generated a large amount of hysteria within the past few days regarding the various situations. As followers of Christ, we need to address the spread of gossip, a seemingly small sin that quickly devours everything in its path, leaving confusion, distrust, slander, and brokenness in its wake. This article seeks to explore the Biblical teachings of gossip, addressing it in everyday life, and how followers of Christ should instead seek to build each other up in their communities.
Definition
Gossip is often defined by the spread of rumors or information of a personal, sensational, or intimate matter, the verifiability of said content being questionable by nature. This is not to be confused with speculation, which involves thinking about or discussing a subject with inconclusive evidence, though gossip and speculation can easily overlap at times if people are not careful with their words.
Causes of Gossip
To address gossip in everyday life, we must first understand why people might engage in it. In the context of Cedarville University’s community, I would argue that because our community severely lacks in controversial events, the few instances that occur have a higher likelihood for people to take on heightened interest. Other motivating factors may include but aren’t limited to the lack of positive relationships, the need for attention from others, the desire to know everything about a situation, or some desire to fit in with some social circle of friends. However, these motivations can’t always be accurately discerned.
Gossip’s Damage to Community
Spreading gossip is damaging by nature to everyone involved. The spread of rumors or false information (which, more often than not, tend to be the same) about others only leads to hurt, broken trust, damaged relationships, and tarnished reputations for the people directly involved. As for the people spreading gossip, it ironically ends up damaging their reputation as well, as gossipers are recognized by many as untrustworthy and unreliable. Consider what it says about a person’s heart if they’re willing to spread rumors or unfounded claims intended to damage the reputation of others.
A Biblical Response
The Scriptures are crystal clear in regards to spreading gossip and the consequences of it. The following is a list of summarized references, but I invite you to read through the passages for more in-depth context.
- Proverbs 16:28 – Those that slander spread strife and separate friends.
- James 3:9-10 – Be aware of the weight our words have over one another.
- James 4:11 – Don’t speak evil against one another.
- Matthew 12:36-37 – We will give account to God for every idle word spoken.
- Matthew 15:11 – What comes out of a person’s mouth can defile them.
- Ephesians 4:29 – Use your language to build up others.
- 1 Thessalonians 5:11 – Be an encouragement to one another.
- Philippians 2:2 – Live in peace with one another.
- 1 Peter 2:12 – Live in a way that brings honor to God’s name.
Many issues gossip creates can be addressed by us as Christians on a local level. We can do this by intentionally fostering positive and clear communication, as well as striving to build stronger relationships with one another. This goes hand-in-hand with keeping Christ’s Commandments. Living this out alone will greatly reduce gossiping, but I would argue that it’s not enough. We must also remain vigilant in refusing to get ourselves involved whenever others spread rumors. This is something I have been convicted about lately. I have certainly struggled with the desire to be nosey and get involved in the business of other people that I have no right to be involved in. This is something I still am striving to improve, and these past few days have certainly opened my eyes to how damaging it can be.
By involving ourselves in gossip, not only do we continue the spread of irreparable damage, but we also damage our witness to the people we are striving to build up. It is not enough to be lukewarm as others spread rumors. When we hear gossip being spread, we have a decision on whether we want to let it foster, or stop it in its tracks. We must be willing to stare in the face of this sin habit and say “no” to it.
Conclusion
Addressing gossip is necessary to promote a positive, intentional community, build strong relationships, and foster discipleship with fellow brothers and sisters in Christ. As Christians, we play a substantial part in reducing the negative impact of gossip, as we can literally stop it in its tracks in our own social circles. Additionally, if you are to speak on various subjects, be mindful with your words. We don’t always have all the information about other circumstances, and it’s possible we never will. Regardless, keep your focus towards Christ in all you do, and be bold in your faith.
Even a fool who keeps silent is considered wise;
– Proverbs 17:28 (ESV)
when he closes his lips, he is deemed intelligent.